What Do You See-When You See “Me”

A friend sent this to me recently. It made me think about how others perceive us and how we perceive others. It has set my “wheels to turning” and I plan on sharing the thoughts it sparked in my mind in the near future. I really love the story.

 ~A Bucket Full of Shrimp~

It happened every Friday evening, almost without fail, when the sun resembled a giant orange and was starting to dip into the blue ocean.

Old Ed came strolling along the beach to his favorite pier.  Clutched in his bony hand was a bucket of shrimp.  Ed walks out to the end of the pier, where it seems he almost has the world to himself.  The glow of the sun is a golden bronze now.  Everybody's gone, except for a few joggers on the beach.  Standing out on the end of the pier, Ed is alone with his thoughts...and his bucket of shrimp.

Before long, however, he is no longer alone.  Up in the sky a thousand white dots come screeching and squawking, winging their way toward that lanky frame standing there on the end of the pier. Before long, dozens of seagulls have enveloped him, their wings fluttering and flapping wildly.  Ed stands there tossing shrimp to the hungry birds.  As he does, if you listen closely, you can hear him say with a smile, 'Thank you.  Thank you.'

In a few short minutes the bucket is empty.  But Ed doesn't leave. He stands there lost in thought, as though transported to another time and place.  Invariably, one of the gulls lands on his sea-bleached, weather-beaten hat - an old military hat he's been wearing for years. When he finally turns around and begins to walk back toward the beach, a few of the birds hop along the pier with him until he gets to the stairs, and then they, too, fly away.  And old Ed quietly makes his way down to the end of the beach and on home.

If you were sitting there on the pier with your fishing line in the water, Ed might seem like 'a funny old duck,' as my dad used to say.  Or, 'a guy that's a sandwich shy of a picnic,' as my kids might say.   To onlookers, he's just another old codger, lost in his own weird world, feeding the seagulls with a bucket full of shrimp.

To the onlooker, rituals can look either very strange or very empty.  They can seem altogether unimportant ....maybe even a lot of nonsense. Old folks often do strange things, at least in the eyes of Boomers and Busters. Most of them would probably write Old Ed off, down there in Florida ... That's too bad. They'd do well to know him better.

His full name:  Eddie Rickenbacker.  He was a famous hero back in World War II.  On one of his flying missions across the Pacific, he and his seven-member crew went down.  Miraculously, all of the men survived, crawled out of their plane, and climbed into a life raft.

Captain Rickenbacker and his crew floated for days on the rough waters of the Pacific.  They fought the sun.  They fought sharks.  Most of all, they fought hunger.  By the eighth day their rations ran out. No food.  No water.  They were hundreds of miles from land and no one knew where they were.

They needed a miracle.  That afternoon they had a simple devotional service and prayed for a miracle.  They tried to nap.  Eddie leaned back and pulled his military cap over his nose.  Time dragged.  All he could hear was the slap of the waves against the raft.

Suddenly, Eddie felt something land on the top of his cap.  It was a seagull!

Old Ed would later describe how he sat perfectly still, planning his next move.  With a flash of his hand and a squawk from the gull, he managed to grab it and wring its neck.  He tore the feathers off, and he and his starving crew made a meal - a very slight meal for eight men - of it.  Then they used the intestines for bait.  With it, they caught fish, which gave them food and more bait......and the cycle continued.  With that simple survival technique, they were able to endure the rigors of the sea until they were found and rescued (after 24 days at sea...).   

Eddie Rickenbacker lived many years beyond that ordeal, but he never forgot the sacrifice of that first lifesaving seagull.  And he never stopped saying, 'Thank you.'  That's why almost every Friday night he would walk to the end of the pier with a bucket full of shrimp and a heart full of gratitude.

Reference: (Max Lucado, In The Eye of the Storm, pp.221, 225-226)

PS:  Eddie was also an Ace in WW I and started Eastern Airlines.

Happy, Discering, Cheerful

Prov 15:13-14 A glad heart makes a happy face; a broken heart crushes the spirit. A wise person is hungry for knowledge, while the fool feeds on trash.

I don’t have much of a “Poker Face”. If something is eating away at me, I might have a smile on my face but my eyes will betray me every time. My eyes reveal my emotions, happiness, sadness, anger, and pain. There is a phrase I have heard about our eyes being the windows of our souls. Perhaps the thought comes from the following scriptures.

We read in Matt 6:22-23 that our eyes are the lamps of our body, if they are good our whole body will be full of light, if they are bad, out body will be full of darkness, and in Matt 12:34 we see that out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks. Later in Matt 15:19-20 we see that out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander.

Our expressions as well as our words can reveal much about us. A cheerful face suggests a positive attitude and reflects our inner joy and our speech Heartache, as stated in the Proverb above crushes the spirit and it too can rule our face as well as our mouth.

I love to sit in busy places such as a mall or an airport and observe people. It’s fascinates me, the things I see and hear and it sets my mind to wondering.

Prov 15:15 For the despondent, every day brings trouble; for the happy heart, life is a continual feast.

These verses guide us in building values for shaping the kind of heart described in vv 13-15.

Prov 1:7 Fear of the Lord is the foundation of true knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline.

Just my jumbled thoughts for today~

Pushing Them to Hell

In a recent conversation a friend of mine told me she had been speaking to a friend of hers who is not a Christian. She was gently asking him questions about his views on God, Jesus and the bible. She wants to teach him and encourage him to become a Christian.

 My friend is not pushy, yet the person she was speaking with told her, in a nice way, that he didn’t want to be pushed. As she was sharing that part of the conversation with me I imagined the following scenario taking place….in Hell.

I pictured people in hell asking each other why they were there and many of them answering-“Oh, I’m here because of my Christian friends, they were always trying to teach me about Jesus, it’s their fault I’m here. They knew I didn’t want to hear about it, they kept on and on and I kept resisting; yessiree, they pushed me right into hell.”

I am reminded of Jesus weeping over Jerusalem in Luke 19:41-42 As he approached Jerusalem and saw the city, he wept over it and said, "If you, even you, had only known on this day what would bring you peace — but now it is hidden from your eyes.

There won’t be any second chances in hell. If only….

We must love those who are lost, love them enough to keep on “pushing”, planting the seed, praying for them and being an example to them. We must not fear rejection, it isn’t us they are rejecting it is Jesus.

 From my own personal experience I can tell you before I quit resisting, I stone-heartedly sat through some earth shaking sermons. I cleverly avoided those who I knew might try to convert me and the only reason why I did is because I did not want to give up my life of sin, my deeds of darkness. I truly shudder as I look back on those days and realize that this peace and salvation that I now have could have remained hidden from my eyes forever. I could have been “pushed into hell” by my own stubbornness and pride. I thank God over and over for the people who didn’t give up on me or consider me a lost cause. Most definitely I was aggravated with them and wanted them to leave me alone. Thankfully, they loved me too much to do that. Our days are brief, should our final day close and we remain unsaved our condition will be without remedy, without hope.

For those who read this who have not obeyed the gospel of Christ, I pray you will make that choice to do so this very day. I guarantee you can find someone willing to hear you confess that Jesus is Lord and baptize you. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Be thrilled and be honored that someone loves you so much they want heaven for you!

For those who have grown weary from trying to teach and encourage those you love and those you want to be with in eternity, I encourage you not to give up. You will never push anyone into hell, but you may take someone to heaven with you.

Acts 2:38-39 "Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. The promise is for you and your children and for all who are far off — for all whom the Lord our God will call."

A Living Example

Acts 4:13 When they saw the courage of Peter and John and realized that they were unschooled, ordinary men, they were astonished and they took note that these men had been with Jesus.

The KJV and others use the word boldness instead of courage. As followers of Christ we too are to be bold and courageous in our everyday lives. How wonderful to be such an example that someone would take notice and say “these men have been with Jesus”. Col 3:17 And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

The story below about the salesmen has been around for quite some time. I like the message and feel it is worth sharing. How often, in our busy lives have we “kept on walking”? 

A few years ago a group of salesmen went to a regional sales convention in Chicago. They had assured their wives that they would be home in plenty of time for Friday night's dinner. In their rush, with tickets and briefcases, one of these salesmen inadvertently kicked over a table which held a display of apples. Apples flew everywhere. Without stopping or looking back, they all managed to reach the plane in time for their nearly missed boarding.

ALL BUT ONE!!!
He paused, took a deep breath, got in touch with his feelings, and experienced a twinge of compassion for the girl whose apple stand had been overturned. He told his buddies to go on without him, waved good-bye, told one of them to call his wife when they arrived at their home destination and explain his taking a later flight. Then he returned to the terminal where the apples were all over the terminal floor. He was glad he did.

The 16-year-old girl was totally blind! She was softly crying, tears running down her cheeks in frustration, and at the same time helplessly groping for her spilled produce as the crowd swirled about her, no one stopping and no one to care for her plight.

The salesman knelt on the floor with her, gathered up the apples, put them back on the table and helped organize her display. As he did this, he noticed that many of them had become battered and bruised; these he set aside in another basket.

When he had finished, he pulled out his wallet and said to the girl, 'Here, please take this $40 for the damage we did. Are you okay?' She nodded through her tears… He continued on with, 'I hope we didn't spoil your day too badly.'

As the salesman started to walk away, the bewildered blind girl called out to him, 'Mister. ...' He paused and turned to look back into those blind eyes. She continued, 'Are you Jesus?'

He stopped in mid-stride, and he wondered. Then slowly he made his way to catch the later flight with that question burning and bouncing about in his soul: 'Are you Jesus?' Do people mistake you for Jesus? That's our destiny, is it not? To be so much like Jesus that people cannot tell the difference as we live and interact with a world that is blind to His love, life and grace.

Do Not Be Foolish

Have you ever spent hours, weeks, and years trying to understand something, to master it to the best of your ability? I know I have and I think I can safely say most of us have. Many times it is job related, school related or simply passion related. We must dedicate ourselves to certain things to be good at them and to do them properly.

Many of us have hobbies and we spend big bucks maintaining them and staying up on the latest things related to them. Why then, are we so unwilling to put more time into getting to know God and his will for our lives?

Look at Eph 5:17 Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is.

Ephesians Chapter four teaches practical ways to fulfill Gods' purpose in the Church, and Chapter six teaches us how to fight the spiritual battle. Chapter five teaches about personal relationships, warns against several sins and instructs us about living in a different way.

Verse eleven tells us to “have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness”, verse fourteen tells us to “wake up” and verses fifteen and sixteen warns us to “Be very careful, then, how you live — not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.

Then in verse seventeen we are given this warning-“Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is. Too often we misuse the time we are given, especially when we aren’t diligent seeking Gods will.

There is nothing wrong with pursuing our hobbies or other interests. We must be careful though to put things in their proper order. We dare not negligent our souls. In verse ten we are told to “find out what pleases the Lord”.

I hope this encourages all of us, if we aren’t seeking God and his will first and foremost in our lives,to take a little honest inventory. I want to go to heaven and I’m sure that is your desire as well. Let’s spur each other on, encouraging each other to make sure we are ready for the “grandest of days”.

Eccl 12:13 Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.

Ps 119:105-106 Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path. I have taken an oath and confirmed it, that I will follow your righteous laws.

Hope you all have a great weekend!

 

Salt and Light

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  

What does a Christian look like? This question was asked to a group of teens recently in their Wednesday evening class and the teacher did not get a single response. He then asked how their families were different from the families of their friends; what kind of things they do differently; and still no response. The question was then asked to an adult class and very few comments were made.

Today I want to throw a handful of questions to you and I sincerely desire your personal feelings if you are willing to share.

• What does a Christian look like to you?
• Are you being a light the world?
• Do you express grief over sin?
• Do you see yourself as being separated from the world?
• Are you being an example of what God requires?
• What is your attitude toward the world?

Jesus looks at the attitudes and intentions of our hearts and not just with the outer actions.

I like how The Message reads on the following, concerning salt and light.

Matt 5:13-16 "Let me tell you why you are here. You're here to be salt-seasoning that brings out the God-flavors of this earth. If you lose your saltiness, how will people taste godliness? You've lost your usefulness and will end up in the garbage. "Here's another way to put it: You're here to be light, bringing out the God-colors in the world. God is not a secret to be kept. We're going public with this, as public as a city on a hill. If I make you light-bearers, you don't think I'm going to hide you under a bucket, do you? I'm putting you on a light stand. Now that I've put you there on a hilltop, on a light stand — shine! Keep open house; be generous with your lives. By opening up to others, you'll prompt people to open up with God, this generous Father in heaven.

MAPLE-OATMEAL SCONES

Well folks, it was snowing again this morning so I decided it would be a good day to bake the following recipe. I have wanted to try it out for at least two years. Since it isn’t good weather to get outside, I put on my boxing gloves, cooking mitts, dug out one of my Barefoot Contessa Cookbooks and whipped up a batch of these delectable scones.

I am in rare form today; as you know I do not normally post a blog on Saturday. I’m guessing that means I’m not normal today. If you find yourself snowed in or just in a baking mode, you must try these. They are delicious. (And I only ate a half of a scone). You can see from the ingredients they aren’t exactly low-cal.

MAPLE-OATMEAL SCONES
Makes 14 Large Scones
This is another variation of our famous scones, but with the addition of whole-wheat flour and oatmeal (to give it texture), pure maple syrup (to give it sweetness), and buttermilk (to make it lower in fat). Who wouldn’t want to wake up to these in the morning?

3 ½ Cups all –purpose flour
1 cup whole-wheat flour
1 cup quick-cooking oats, plus additional for sprinkling
2 Tablespoons baking powder
2 Tablespoons granulated sugar
2 Teaspoons salt
1 Pound cold unsalted butter, diced
½ Cup cold buttermilk
½ Cup pure maple syrup
4 extra-large eggs, lightly beaten
1 egg beaten with 1 tablespoon milk or water, for egg wash

GLAZE
1 ¼ Cups confectioners’ sugar
½ Cup pure maple syrup
1 Teaspoon pure vanilla extract

Preheat the oven to 400°.

In the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with a paddle attachment*, combine the flours, oats, baking powder, sugar and salt. Blend the cold butter in at the lowest speed and mix until the butter is in pea-sized pieces. Combine the buttermilk, maple syrup, and eggs and add quickly to the flour-and butter mixture. Mix until just blended. The dough may be sticky.

Dump the dough out onto a well-floured surface and be sure it is combined. Flour your hands and a rolling pin and roll the dough ¾-to 1-inch thick. You should see lumps of butter in the dough. Cut into 3-inch rounds with a plain or fluted cutter and place on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper.

Brush the tops with egg wash. Bake for 20 to 25 minute, until the tops are crisp and the insides are done.

To make the glaze, combine the confectioners’ sugar, maple syrup, and vanilla. When the scones are done, cool for 5 minutes, and drizzle each scone with 1 tablespoon of glaze. I like to sprinkle some uncooked oats on the top, for garnish. The warmer the scones are when you glaze them, the thinner the glaze will be.

*I just used my food processor.

Loneliness

While at the grocery store earlier this week I ended up on the same aisle with a dear friend. Her husband passed away about two years ago. She is elderly and was stocking up for the big freeze we were expecting here in Northeast Oklahoma. I have been pretty good about calling her or visiting her, but with the holidays I let other things get in the way.

We chatted for a few minutes and she said she was getting along fine and mentioned that she talks to her cat and he never says a word. That really made me sad, and ashamed of myself for not being more diligent about staying in touch. I got “it”, she was very lonely.

Loneliness is a terrible thing. We can be surrounded by people and still be lonely. It’s important for us to know that we matter to someone else and if we have times when we feel as if we don’t matter…that’s not good!

I am reminded of the following lyrics-

One is the loneliest number that you'll ever do
Two can be as bad as one
It's the loneliest number since the number one

I would like to encourage and remind all of us to remember those who are alone, regardless of their age. A visit, phone call or even a card can put a smile on another’s face and bring a bit of joy into their day.

“I Know How to Abound”

We are now four days into the New Year and I’m feeling a bit lethargic. The sun is shining today which will help. I may be experiencing cabin fever. It’s too cold to entice me to venture out and the roads are still covered with the latest snow. It would be so easy to complain about the weather, yet each time I either complain about the weather or consider complaining, I am reminded of the Israelites complaining in the wilderness and that usually changes my mind. God has appointed the seasons and I am reminded of the abundance of my blessings, no matter what the weather is.

While watching the news last night a reporter was speaking with two homeless men. Both were young, probably in their twenties. There are shelters available for night, yet so far they were choosing not to take advantage of them. Even for the ones who do visit the shelters at night it is my understanding that there are still very few places for them to stay in the day to be out of the weather.

I’ll be honest; I can’t imagine living on the streets. I understand that in some cases people are on the streets because of their lifestyle, others are there because of economics. As I listened to the story and thought of my own blessings, I remembered the following verses.

Phil 4:12-13 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength.

My times of having plenty have far outweighed my times of being in need.

The following article is from Spurgeon’s Morning and Evening Book and it gives me great pause for reflection and thanksgiving. I pray that in my abundance that I will not be filled with pride and that my abundance will not bring on “wantonness of spirit”, but a ready willingness to help others.

There are many who know "how to be abased" who have not learned "how to abound." When they are set upon the top of a pinnacle their heads grow dizzy, and they are ready to fall. The Christian far oftener disgraces his profession in prosperity than in adversity. It is a dangerous thing to be prosperous. The crucible of adversity is a less severe trial to the Christian than the fining-pot of prosperity. Oh, what leanness of soul and neglect of spiritual things have been brought on through the very mercies and bounties of God! Yet this is not a matter of necessity, for the apostle tells us that he knew how to abound. When he had much he knew how to use it. Abundant grace enabled him to bear abundant prosperity. When he had a full sail he was loaded with much ballast, and so floated safely. It needs more than human skill to carry the brimming cup of mortal joy with a steady hand, yet Paul had learned that skill, for he declares, "In all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry." It is a divine lesson to know how to be full, for the Israelites were full once, but while the flesh was yet in their mouth, the wrath of God came upon them. Many have asked for mercies that they might satisfy their own hearts' lust. Fullness of bread has often made fullness of blood, and that has brought on wantonness of spirit. When we have much of God's providential mercies, it often happens that we have but little of God's grace, and little gratitude for the bounties we have received. We are full and we forget God: satisfied with earth, we are content to do without heaven. Rest assured it is harder to know how to be full than it is to know how to be hungry—so desperate is the tendency of human nature to pride and forgetfulness of God. Take care that you ask in your prayers that God would teach you "how to be full."

“Let not the gifts Thy love bestows
Estrange our hearts from Thee."

I’m Going to Spread Some Cheer

 

We survived the Blizzard of 2009 (our first one this year) and hopefully the last. We also survived Christmas. There are still several inches of snow on the ground and we may get more Tuesday and Thursday. We will probably try to venture out tomorrow to get some milk and other odds and ends.

I’m sitting here preparing to pay a couple of bills that will be due soon. I opened the cable bill and noticed there is a $7.00 increase on our basic cable. Ouch! Our once a year property taxes will be due by mid-January. We get one bill for property taxes and one for personal property. That one really irks me; I mean really, we paid taxes on our personal property when we purchased it, why do we have to pay taxes on it again, year after year after year? I think that must be unconstitutional. Our car insurance is due in January too, for the car and the truck. We pay each one every six months, one is up eighty-nine cents and the other is up two-dollars and seventy cents, and yes I will be inquiring about the increase. I just get a little tired of getting gouged over and over and everyone does it. We the consumers constantly have to pay a little more for everything.

I think I will send my Water Company, Phone, Cable, Gas and Electric Company, Auto and Home insurance etc., a bill. It will read something like this:

Dear Providers:

You are receiving this notice to inform you that I am deducting five-dollars per month each and every month from the “amount owed” until further notice.

For the past thirty years I have been a loyal customer, I have always paid my bills on time. You have never had to send me a late notice or a disconnect notice. I have paid your yearly increases year after year never calling you once to complain.

And to my insurance agent: I have not filed claims because I have not been involved in accidents. You supposedly give me great discounts because of my great driving record, accident free all these years, no claims on the home except the one time many years ago when our house was robbed twice in the same month. You supposedly give us discounts for being non-smokers and non-drinkers, multicar and accident free and multiple line reductions. This leaves me greatly confused as my bills are always higher than the previous ones. With all of the discounts you are giving me it seems like you should be sending me a check instead of a bill.

I have decided to reward myself for all of the money I have saved you in postage, staff and etc. I don’t want to pay for your “free calendars, pens, note pads or the Christmas card” you may send me each year. I understand we can’t part ways; you have services I rely on, and in order to be a good citizen and keep the laws of the state, I must obtain some of your services, but hey, I think it’s time for things to be evened out a little and I’m sure you will agree as I  once again remind you that I’m really a great customer. I doubt you will even miss the $5.00 deduction each month. And just to make you feel a bit better and to show our appreciation, I’m sending you a picture of me and my husband along with a calendar to remind you each day and each month of what really great customers we are.

Oh, and lest I forget Dear Providers-Happy New Year!

Best regards,
Your Loyal Customer

I think I feel a tad better now, care to join me? :)